Today was just okay, but tomorrow will always come

Hi guys. Seem like many people pm me to write about how to motivate their days like when they having bad and normal day. So, here a something. Hope you guys be more strong and always enjoy, happy and cheer in next time ^^

Everyone always talks about how its normal to have bad days, but nobody ever says anything about the okay days, the days where everything seems lackluster and dull, the days where you know that you could be productive if you tried but you just don’t feel like trying, the days where the things that you love just seem like a waste of time.  In some ways, its worse than having a horrible day because at least there’s a reason for a bad day.  If you’re having an okay day, you’ll survive.  Just because today doesn’t seem particularly interesting doesn’t mean that you are suddenly destined to have a boring life.  You must learn to put one foot in front of the other and focus on making today count towards tomorrow.  Maybe today was just okay, but tomorrow can be a little better, and next day a little better than that, and so on until you are exactly where you want to be.  Life has its ups and downs, so you must learn to move with it instead of being reluctantly dragged through life. — the next day a little better than that, and so on until you are exactly where you want to be ♥

Nobody Prepares You For Heartbreak

Hello guys. It's been a week I didn't update my blog. Sorry, it's school holiday, so I'm really busy spending my time with family ^^

So, my topic today about heartbreak again. For those who missed my update, you may click this link

Part 1 and Part 2

For that ache you feel all over. The way you feel when the person who means the world to you suddenly looks at you like you mean nothing. That feeling like you got punched in the fucking stomach.

When the person you love suddenly decides that you’re not what they want anymore, you’re no longer good enough. Or maybe they say it’s not you its them, they’re not in the right place for a relationship, or maybe you’re too good for them. No matter what their goddamn reasoning is nothing will stop you from feeling like you’re going to throw up even when you haven’t eaten in days, and the constant feeling like you’re going to break into tears even if you’ve cried yourself dry. The constant shivering even if you know you’re not cold but even if you were they won’t be there to hold you anymore. Nothing and I mean nothing will stop you from the constant wondering and overwhelming sadness because you weren’t good enough.

Nobody prepared you for heartbreak. Nobody warned you not to fall for the boy with deep blue eyes and devilish smirk. Nobody told you not to fall in love or not to make him your happiness. And fuck nobody gave you the slightest warning about how fucking awful it feels when they leave.

Because sure you can warn someone that if it doesn’t work out they will cry. You can tell them they’ll be sad for a while and you can tell them it’ll hurt to see his smile and know you’re not the reason anymore. But my god, there is no possible way to prepare someone for the overall ache that comes along when the person they love decides that they don’t want them anymore.

Nobody prepares you for heartbreak, but that’s because nobody can really prepare a person for that kind of fucking pain. ” — holy fuck I didn’t know I could feel this bad

I know you’re upset about him. It’s okay, be upset, cry, scream into your pillow till you think you’ve lost your voice. But looking back on this stupid boy who broke your heart in the future, you’ll laugh at him, Laugh because he thought he was doing the right thing at the right time. Turns out he wasn’t because he lost something amazing. And you’ll thank him. Thank him for making you stronger, and to say to hell with him, I’m great. But most importantly you’ll appreciate what he did, because without him leaving you wouldn’t have found the amazing boy you’re with now.

So, that's my little bit sharing about the feeling of heartbreak. I hope for those out there who having a heartbreak became more strong and never give up on life!

Till we meet again! 

How To Get Over Heartbreak

So, my entry today about how we handle situition when moving on and some quotes about how to get over heartbreak.

Nearly every person I have ever spoken to has told me some version of this statement, “I was hurt, so I built a wall around my heart to protect myself.” How judgmental of an act to assume that every human being on Earth is a carbon copy of your past predator. How unjust to your soul to keep yourself from making genuine connections with human beings. How unkind to think that because someone hurt you they must be evil to their core. By making yourself a victim you turned yourself into a victimizer. So here’s some tough love for you - Stop sulking. Make an effort to heal instead of weighing every relationship you have down with your baggage. Stop romanticizing your pain and wearing it like a badge of honor. Stand up. Dust yourself off. Recognize that the human body, heart, and soul are more resilient than you give them credit for. Stop hurting other people because you are too weak to take control of your life back. Walls are for cowards. Compassion is for the brave.” — Moving on

#1 Forgive your heartbreaker. Forgive the way they walked into your life and forgive the way they left. Forgive the melody of their lie when they said they loved you and forgive the harmony of their truth when they admitted to you that they never did. Forgive the way they touched you so gently, for they took advantage of the way you appreciated their touch and burned you. Forgive them. Not for them, but for you. To fix a heart that’s broken, you must forgive the person who broke it.

#2 Locate all of the pieces to your heart after the heartbreak. When it broke, it combusted and the pieces flew in all directions. It is a necessity that you find where all of the pieces went after its great shatter because depression seems to be everywhere which makes it easy for your heart to fall into it. Immediately, start looking for where the pieces to your heart went. Find the pieces lying in depression and get them out of there. Find the pieces lying in self-pity and get them out of there. Find the pieces lying in shame and get them out of there. Find the pieces lying in self hate and get them out of there. Find the pieces lying in other shards of glass and get them out of there. You will find your heart in many places after it is broken and some of those places will convince you that you aren’t worth it. Do not let your heart linger in the idea of you being worthless. Get your heart’s pieces out of depression, self-pity, shame, self-hate, and shards of glass immediately because yes, your heartbreaker made you upset and it’s okay that you are, but your heartbreaker should not take authority of your heart, demanding that it stays upset about them. Get that piece of your heart out of permanent sadness quickly, kiss it, caress it, and drown it in happiness that only you can provide.

#3 Think about the life you had before you met your lover. You were living before them; never forget that. Was your life happy beforehand or sad? If it was happy, get back into that lifestyle and make it even better. If it was sad, start looking for the true meaning of happiness, which will be an adventure. You are allowed to live again after your heart is broken. Sure, your heartbreaker took your heart but don’t let them take your life! You’ve had beautiful memories before your heart broke. Relive those memories so the pieces can glue back to each other again. You’ve lived a beautiful life before your life collided with another’s. Be excited to see the beauty in life without your heartbreaker. You’ve done it once, you can do it again.

#4 Get to know yourself. Your heart yearned for your lover before but now that it knows the result of putting itself into their hands, it will want something better than that. Your heart will always yearn for something different since it knows that what it used to yearn for broke it. So, get to know your heart! What does it beat for? What stops its beating? What makes your heart happy? What depresses your heart? What makes your heart laugh? What makes your heart cry? What does your heart want? Only you can know that because someone will approach you with an enchanting set of eyes and a charming smile and try to tell you what your heart wants. If you truly know what your heart longs for, then no one else can tell you what they think your heart longs for. Know your heart, guard it with your knowledge, and set a passcode up for its entrance. So, when a heartbreaker comes about, the heart will be protected from them.

Stay away from your heartbreaker in disguise. There are more people out there who are willing to break your heart again and though they may seem sweet, you have to learn from your past experiences. You have to know that your heart deserves more than being broken forever. Your heart being broken by your lover will now show you who you should give your heart to next and like it always did, you will see that your heart will be perfectly fine in your own hands for a while. There may be someone out there for you and your heart, but for now, be that someone. Do not break your own heart. Just because you are familiar with how your heart breaks, do not take advantage of your knowledge and break it yourself. You are allowed to be upset, angry, and confused but don’t let your thoughts and your emotions get ahold of your heart. It was broken and I promise you that your heart didn’t like it being broken and if you are next in line for the breaking, imagine how the heart will feel. Have emotions and feelings but don’t let those emotions and feelings have your heart. The heart does not want for its pieces to be scattered everywhere due to the person you loved and the heart certainly does not want for itself to break due to the person who owns it. Take care of yourself and take care of your heart. It’s important that you are there for your heart because it’s been through so much and it needs you to heal its wounds. Be the one for your heart. It’s perfectly okay to love your own heart. 

So, ends here. Till we meet again and thank you for reading! :)

How To Handle When Yours In Heartbroken

Hello guys!

I would like to share you how to handle situition when your heartbroken. Especially for girls out there.

If he leaves you babygirl, don't chase him. Don't beg him to stay. Don't send him sweet texts telling him how much you love him and it doesn't matter. Don't tell him how he is going to miss you or stuff like that. Don't say a word. Just walk away. He will break his head for you baby. He will think about the fact that you didn't said a damn word and it will make him wonder what he did. 

If he did good and make the right decision. At first he will leave it the way it is and be like "fuck that shit." But at one point, it will haunt him. And let me tell you this, You did good. 

He doesn't even deserve a damn word. The way he broke you is just heartbreaking.

Sweetie, you have to know that your Prince will come. Don't settle for less.

-Keep this in mind!

5 Things I Hate Most

ASSALAMUALAIKUM | SALAM SEJAHTERA

First of all, Syilah nak ucap terima kasih kepada Ecah sebab tag Syilah untuk join. Hihi.

So, RULES dia ialah:

"Buat satu entry bertajuk 5 Things I Hate Most beserta gambar di atas dan list lima benda /perkara yang anda paling suka/benci. Mention siapa tag anda dalam entry tersebut. Anda juga dikehendaki
untuk tag lima orang blogger dan pastikan mereka tahu."

So, tanpa membuang masa. let's check it out!

1. Lipas- Syilah memang geli and memang eiii dengan lipas lah. Lelagi kalau dia terbang. Pernah baru-baru ni Syilah berperang dengan lipas. Habis semua dia bawa geng dia keluar. Huhu. Syilah berperang menggunakan senjata "spray lipas" :p

2. Fake Friend- Rasanya ramai yang tak suka bila kita mempunyai kawan seperti ni. Syilah memang agak pantang lah. Kalau ye pun. Just be ourself. Tak payah nak bermuka-muka, depan baik tapi belakang kita.....hmmm! Paham-paham jelah ye.

3. Tak Suka Menunggu- Ni agak panas jugalah. Syilah ni jenis yang menepati masa. Kalau dia janji dengan kita nak jumpa pukul 2 petang, 5-10 minit awal Syilah dah terpacak. Then, if pukul 2 tu tak sampai juga, memang panas lah kan huhu. Tapi, Syilah sabar je kalau boleh sabar :p

4. Kata-kata manis- Hm, sekarang Syilah dah allergic sikit dengan kata-kata manis dari seorang lelaki. Entahlah maybe trauma kot disebabkan peristiwa lampau. So, buat masa ni kalau ada lelaki yang nak berkenalan ke, susah jugalah Syilah nak cuba bukakan hati ni.

5. Copycat- Syilah tak suka kalau orang suka meniru Syilah dari atas sampai bawah and everything yang Syilah buat. Kalau nak pun tiru sebiji macam Syilah, biarlah berpada. Tak salah kalau sesuatu yang dia buat tu minta izin dari kita kan.

Rasanya itu sahaja. Hehe. So, sekarang Syilah nak tag.

Kak Rehan

Maisarah

Shuya

Syamsid

Yaya

Homemade Biskut Tiramisu

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

Haaa. Nak tahu resepi dia? Meh sini Syilah share.

BAHAN-BAHAN:

-I paket biskut(tak kisah biskut apa. tapi lebih sedap biskut keringlah)
-1 tin susu cair
-1/2 tin susu pekat(kalau korang tak suka manis, kurangkanlah susu tu)
-1 cawan air
-Secubit garam
-Serbuk milo

CARA-CARA:

1. Korang satukan susu cair, susu pekat, tepung kastard, air dan garam ke dalam periuk atau kuali.

Gunakan api perlahan, masak dan kacau campuran kastard tadi sehingga adunan menjadi likat.

Then tutup api.

2. Susun biskut tadi ke dalam bekas atau loyang. Masukkan adunan kastard supaya menutupi lapisan biskut dan ratakan. Taburkan sedikit milo.

3. Susun lagi lapisan biskut di atas lapisan kastard tadi. Lapiskan lagi dengan adunan kastard dan taburkan milo.

4. Ulang langkah ini sehingga habis. Lapisan atas sekali, lapiskan dengan adunan kastard dan lebihkan taburan serbuk milonya.

5. Simpan biskut tiramisu ini di dalam peti sejuk. Lepastu apa lagi. Ngap lah! xD

Resepi ni pun Syilah belajar dari mama sebab dia rajin sangat memasak and mencuba sesuatu yang baru. Memang sedap gais!

Selamat mencuba! :)

All Is Done!

بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ 

Alhamdulillah ku panjatkan kesyukuran kepada Allah SWT. Akhirnya teka-teki keputusan SPM Syilah dah diketahui. Alhamdulillah lulus dengan jayanya. Banyak yang menaik. Syilah bersyukur sesangat. 

Mungkin lepas ni blog ini akan kembali sunyi sepi tak berpenghuni hehe. Al-maklumlah sibuk nak mencari ke mana hala tuju nak sambung belajar.

Kepada batch 1998, TAHNIAH kepada yang mendapat keputusan yang cemerlang.

Dan kepada yang tak seberapa keputusannya, masih banyak lagi peluang anda di luar sana. Rezeki masing-masing.

Kami berlima lulus dengan jayanya. Memasing ada A dan full of credit. Tak sesia usaha kami selama ini. Alhamdulillah sangat!

Photo credit: Atiekah Samsu :)

Lepas kami semua amik results, terus ke warung Cendol Hawa. Basahkan tekak dan lepak. Maklumlah bukan selalu lepak bersama. Memasing busy kerja.

Tak cukup dengan cendol, kami singgah ke sebuah restoran. HAHA. I don't know why semalam memasing macam kelaparan. Kami makan non-stop jugalah :p

Baju putih tu guru kelas saya dan mengajar Sains Sukan. Cikgu Nai namanya.

Tahniah semua mendapat keputusan yang cemerlang!



Tahniah juga kat classmates Syilah. 5 Cendekia. Thank you for this amazing 2 years we have being through up and down. Semua lulus dengan cemerlang. Even tak semua ada dalam gambar ni. Moga kalian berjaya di luar sana!

Cuma nak cakap. Semoga kalian semua berjaya di masa hadapan. Jangan berhenti mencari ilmu dan berjaya mencapai impian memasing. Terima kasih untuk semuanya dan semoga ukhuwah kita terjalin hingga akhir hayat. Insha Allah!

Tak dilupakan terima kasih tak terhingga kepada guru-guru yang mengajar Syilah selama ini. SMK DAMANSARA DAMAI 1, Pusat Tuisyen Sinaran Damansara Damai dan rakan-rakan yang banyak membantu sehingga Syilah berjaya!

Ok. Sampai sini sahaja. Jumpa di next entri!

Chaw ya!